Just as in anything in life whether it be pursuing a particular practice/art or our relationships with others, we are constantly coming up against 'walls' which we must find a way around or learn to work with.
In my own experiences and in conversations with others I have come up against many. Of recent discussion was tying with someone who is easily aroused or tend to 'fall into subspace' very quickly. This can make it harder to achieve the exact tension with the ropes if one is not yet fully adept in handling the ropes and their partner simultaneously.
I opened this forum to create a place where we can discuss such challenges, give advice and hopefully come up with techniques or ideas to overcome these.
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Challenges you come up against in kinbaku (shibari)?
Challenges you come up against in kinbaku (shibari)?
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As I am still improving my tying practice, answering exhaustively to what challenges me in Kinbaku would be too long, but the first thing that comes to me is when I tie and suspend people who wants to try ropes for the first time but having no link whatsoever with the pain&pleasure culture. People not interested in the domination/submission part of the game but who simply wants to try the sensation of ropes on their body. Or even curious people but stressed to let go.
Although challenging, it's an interesting experience where I tend to focus more on how to create the less pain as possible and make the person feel secure in suspension, if I can I try to make them reach the meditative state you can feel with ropes. Still it's not that easy to bring the model in this sort of subspace when I am require to be "neutral" in my way of tying.